Here are the steps to cut your own hair for men:

1. Wash your hair before you cut it. Your hair will be easier to work with if it's clean and snarl-free. Get your hair wet under running water and use shampoo and conditioner, rinsing both out after you've worked them through your hair.
2. Detangle your hair with a comb.
3. Cut the sides of your hair first, select a guard size.
4. Cut the back of your hair. If you’re wondering how to cut the back of your hair, don’t panic.
5. Give yourself a fade.
6. Cut the top of your hair.
7. Clean up the hairline and neck with trimmers.
8. Style your hair.

I hope this helps! Let me know if you have any other questions or if there's anything else I can help you with.

Here's a link to a more detailed tutorial on how to cut men's hair from **Real Men Real Style** .