To say "my love" in French, you can use the phrase "mon amour" which means "my love" in English. This is the most common way of saying "my love" in French and is considered one of the most romantic phrases in the French language.

Here are the steps to say "I love you" in French :
1. Find the person you love.
2. Say his or her name.
3. Say "je t'aime" (I love you).
4. Optional: Follow with "my darling".
5. Optional: To respond to someone who says "I love you," say "Moi aussi, je t'aime" (I love you too).