I found an article on [hackspirit.com](https://hackspirit.com/how-to-get-him-back/) that provides 13 steps to get him back. Here are the steps:

1. Remember that time is your friend.
2. Get control of the situation.
3. Pull on his heartstrings.
4. Don’t beg.
5. Don’t bother with him.
6. Work on yourself.
7. Don’t act desperate.
8. Check all the boxes.
9. Make him jealous (but only if you’re ready).
10. Be happy.
11. Be patient.
12. Don’t be afraid to ask for help.
13. Know when to walk away.

Another article on [lovestrategies.com](https://lovestrategies.com/how-to-get-him-back/) suggests six steps to get him back:

1. Take your time to reflect.
2. Be too proud to beg.
3. Initiate a “no contact” rule.
4. Don’t obsess over him/live your life.
5. Initiate contact.
6. Commit to a better life together.

I hope this helps! Let me know if you have any other questions or if there's anything else I can help you with!