Here are some steps that might help you get your guy back:

1. Cut off ties with him and give him some space to figure things out on his own.
2. Work on yourself and live your life without obsessing over him.
3. Don’t beg, act desperate, or try to look good for him.
4. Initiate contact after some time and send him a message that shows you care.
5. Pull on his heartstrings and remind him of the good times you had together.
6. Commit to a better life together and check all the boxes that he wants in a partner.

These are just some of the steps that might help you get your guy back. Remember that every situation is different, so it's important to take things slow and be patient with yourself and your ex-boyfriend. Good luck!🍀

Here's a link to an article I found that goes into more detail about how to get your guy back: